Ok so this one is exclusively for the ladies 😉 So guys please excuse us! Oh and between do not worry, the heading is just a joke. You know you cannot be tricked into anything. Ha! This is just us women having some girly fantasies So go ahead and indulge yourself in something else. Like this maybe –
Ahh..Now that he is gone, girls, this is something special for you. Tried and tested of course! We all have our own little idiosyncrasies and wishes which may be responded with an ummm “No.Not Again” or “That is too expensive” or “Not now honey. Later”. And we do know the “later” will never come unless we continuously pester him. So howww do we get things done without the dreaded nagging coming into the picture!
Actually seems like you can! It is all about the timing dearies 😉
Presenting my handy little guide on how to get things done by the man in your life without sounding like the queen of nagging 😛 (and if things go smooth, far from nagging queen, he would be deeming you as a real keeper) But make sure you try these out with some sufficient gap. Do not let him catch the pattern 😉
So here you go:
1. Make your wish when he is back after a guy’s night out.
This works very well. Especially if you are in the first few years of marriage or he knows you do not really approve of guy nights but still you let him have it without any drama. ❤ Aren’t you the perfect girl? Chances are that he would have been glorified in his group to have these “men-only” sessions even after marriage or being in a serious relationship. With you as the smiling woman behind it, he would not be able to refuse your heart’s craving. (If you really want it so bad, be the one to suggest him to hang out with those friends of his, he knows you cannot stand. You would be surprised at the results 😉 )
2. Make him an offer he cannot refuse 😉
No no, do not get me wrong! You are not bribing him. Rather you are just giving him the perfect reason to get the job done. Hmm, that does sound like bribing, doesn’t it? Okay, well maybe it is a teeny weeny bit, but whatever it takes right? It can be anything from cooking his favorite meals to handing him the TV remote for the weekend to letting him play games uninterrupted a whole day 😛 You know what ticks your man!
3. When he is engrossed in his favorite sports.
Now this is apt when you want to do something on the computer. Like maybe make reservations in some exotic restaurant (the one he always said you cannot go since the traffic in that road is high.Bah.Traffic.Who cares about traffic.) or do some exquisite online shopping! Make sure you ask him before you click the buttons because you need to get a positive response at least for name sake which you can quote later! And if you ask this right after his team has scored, you have also scored honey! 😎
4.Ask on your birthday or anniversary.
This one is a classic 😀 I know many of my friends who have done this and got away with their wants 😉 (I am yet to try this one.) But beware ladies, he can do the same thing to you as well. So be prepared for that!
5.Time to turn up the heat!
Not in the bedroom you naughty woman. Ha! Though I like the way you think 😉 You can try that as well maybe 😛 But what I am speaking about is unleashing your inner diva. So plan of action?
Sulk around, Stamp your feet,(in a kiddish way. I do this a lot and my man kinda likes this and gives in 😛 ), Some occasional frowns and make him miss the bubbly-bouncy you! But do make sure there is no wordplay and teary tantrums.
6.When everything is perfect in the la-la-la land!
You know what I am referring to right? You both just had the perfect evening, in that cozy little place which is your all time favorite, you are going back home, the FM playing your favorite songs, he is holding your hand while driving and says I love you ❤ Darn, it could not get any more puuurfect. So shoot it then. In the sweetest, cutest way he loves 😉 He will not be able to resist you! But you know what? I would not recommend it much. The moment is there to savor and lose yourselves in love and not to take advantage of. But once in a while, I mean you really liked that red dress..And it has been a while you shopped..And oh those sparkling swarovski in it, they looked quite lovely..Hmmm..
A word of caution: this should be your ultimate and the final option only if the above ideas fail you. After all, you know that he already puts up a lot with your whims and fancies and you can always try 1,2,3,4 and 5 again ;). I was on the verge of doing this a couple of times but finally, I just could not make myself do it
Please do report back if you try any of these techniques or have already tried and found out your own versions of success. (or failure, I am always ready with the edit button 😉 )