It still feels surreal to know that 7 years of love and 2 years of marriage have passed and I can write pages on how amazing and dreamy it is to be in love head over heels each and every day of my life with my part-time lover and full-time friend 😉 (Yes, a huge fan of that song <3) But today, I thought I will share a few lessons I learnt from this man for whom my love and respect only keeps on increasing as time goes on..
- This very forgiving and patient man in my home have always keeps telling that we should be ourselves and just because people are not nice does not mean that we should stoop down to their level. Now, I will be truthful and admit that I tried to resist him for a good 3-4 years, esp in our initial years of dating and sometimes later also. I mean why should you tolerate other’s rudeness and hurtful nature and how in the world can you ignore it and be “nice” to them!! But after seeing him for all these years treating everyone with kindness and always being patient and smiling to even those who are not so sincere to him has made me change my way of thinking. I have understood that holding a grudge is more of a pain for ourselves and while it might take away our peace of mind we don actually gain anything out of it. While I admit that my inner diva still lets out some steam when she can, she is more and more swaying towards the “forgiving and compassionate version of herself”. 😀 I am really thankful that I am with someone who is a living example of the proverb “Treat everyone with politeness, even those who are rude to you. Not because they are nice but because you are nice.”
- He is the one who taught me that it is those romantic ideas which are able to feed our love daily, without even being noticed that keeps the glow going in our relationships. Now I was just like any other girl equaling romance to flowers, cards and stuff like that but he made me realize that romance is not about only buying, rather its more about giving. And that inspired a complete post in my blog. https://gameplanhappilyeverafter.wordpress.com/2016/02/12/top-10-romantic-gestures-we-overlook-in-our-daily-life/
- Keeping the house spick and span! I guess I should thank his parents for this one actually 😉 I never have to worry about dropped wet towels on floor or bug him to arrange his table or clothes. Everything is kept prim and proper and he inspires me also to keep my wardrobes and stuff organized. (which I am still working on since “Nooo, Don’t Throw It Away” seems to be one of my major life mottos 😛 )
- Many people fear that a relationship means you are settling “down”. That, there would be a lot of restrictions and you might have to give up your dreams and change yourself. And yes, though I knew him as a friend for long before going out with him, I feared it too. But this person here, he challenges me and drives me towards my dreams even at times, I don feel so upbeat. Every time my friends tell me that I have not changed a bit from my school days or college days, I can only thank God to bestow me with this guy who enjoys my craziness and is that someone spontaneous whom I can end up having a fit of giggles and can be unapologetically myself in this crazy world and share my dreams, both senseless and serious ones without being judged. He is the one who taught me that the relationship with the right person is a release, not a restriction.
- I could go on and on but think I will stop now with this one. Last one but not at all the least one. I was a person who never used to workout and even for half a km walk used to huff and puff and behave as if am running a marathon! And these days(for the past few months) I cannot believe that I am getting up around 8am in the morning and working out and damn it, I am actually loving it! I still cannot get up at 6am and go to the gym like he does, but its because of his constant encouragement (bugging? 😉 ), I ended up doing atleast this and am still able to squeeze myself into all my fav dresses 😀
This photo was part of our post-wedding photography, where we were actually supposed to gaze into each other’s eyes “romantically”. Well, you can see what happened actually 😛 We goofed up and were giggling driving the photographers crazy 😀 Finally they did get some “romantic” pics but this is one of our favorites among the lot 🙂
P.S.- Oh and by the way, Happy Anniversary to us ❤ 🙂 Incidentally it was my birthday too on the 25th and we had a blast at the Niagara Falls and also completed our Bday-Anniversary weekend by floating over the meadows of New Jersey in a hot-air balloon today 🙂 The weekend had the most perfect-dreamy finish to it when the hubster once again swept me off the feet by planning a hot-air balloon adventure for just the two of us. I went speechless for a couple of minutes when he divulged to me this and was literally and figuratively on “cloud 9” sometime later !! 😉 I will surely blog about them in detail soon 🙂
Happy birthday and happy anniversary to you! Stay in love always, my beautiful friend ❤
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Thank you so much Diane ❤ I posted the blog and almost fell asleep after the hectic but exciting weekend but before I drifted off to sleep, I did see that you commented and it made me so much happy ❤ 🙂
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Sending hugs!
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You have a wonderful catch of a guy there, and he has a wonderful catch of a girl, so it’s a win-win for everyone! You have crammed a lot of love and adventure into those 2 years. 🙂
Happy anniversary to you two lovebirds! Keep up the great work! <3<3
Happy birthday to you, sweetheart! I hope your day was fabulous, and that you at least got in a bite of ice cream. 😉 *hugs*
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Ohh Nessie dear 🙂 You are so kind to me 🙂 I consider it a great compliment when someone says I am a great catch 😀 We hear it mostly the other way in our relationship , though I love hearing that 🙂 But this feels good too ;)And thank you SO much for the wishes dear..<3 ❤ ❤
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Well, you ARE a great catch! You’re sweet and funny, and fun and supportive – it’s clear to see that you two are an adorable couple suited very well to one another. You each bring your own importance to the relationship, and none is less valuable than another. 🙂 *hugs*
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Awww, thank you so much Nessie dear ❤ That is a wonderful compliment one can give to a couple 🙂 You just have an awesome way with words 🙂 *hugs* 🙂
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Much love!❤❤
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Thank you ❤ 🙂
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Loved this post, wonderful start to my day. Happy anniversary and joyful birthday to you!
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Thanks a a zillion for the wonderful wishes Karoliina dear ❤ I am so happy this gave a positive start to your day 🙂
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I absolutely loved reading this post! Congratulations on your Anniversary and Happy Belated Birthday, too! It sounds like you both have a really awesome relationship and I’m so glad you shared it here. It’s inspiring! Lots of Love! ❤
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Heyaa Marie. How is your trip going in NYC ? 🙂 Sometimes I do lookout for you, you know ? 😉 I almost thought I saw you in a subway but it was someone else 😀
Thanks for the wishes dear 🙂 Wishing you a great week ahead 🙂
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Oh my gosh, that would have been so cool to meet you there 🙂 NYC was so much fun. It’s one of my favorite cities, so it’s easy to enjoy yourself. Have you been to Chelsea Market? So much goodness. Wishing you a great week, too! ❤ ❤
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We walked through the High Line and passed by the market but I have not explored it by itself 🙂 Yes, NYC is becoming one of my fav cities too 🙂
Thank you Marie 🙂
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Oh Minaxi sweetie… isn’t that the most amazing post ever …. Happy anniversary to a perfect couple & happy birthday to you beautiful girl 🎉🎉🎉 I cannot really tell you how your post made me feel…. it made my day… it made me stick to the idea of real love….your man is really “the prince charming”… you are definitely a lucky amazing woman… i wish you years and years of love and you keep sparkling as usual ❤❤❤❤
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Awww, Maja, I cannot say how much your words brightened up my day ❤ ❤ ❤ Thank you so much for the warm and loving wishes. 🙂 Wishing you a splendid week ahead dear 🙂
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It is all very true sweetie ❤❤❤
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❤ 🙂 Thanks again hun 🙂
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Happy birthday and happy anniversary!! 🙂 what a lovely post! And isn’t this what love is meant to do – make us better versions of ourselves? ❤
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So true Johanna 🙂 This is exactly what love is supposed to do and I am glad we are on the right track till now 🙂 Thank you so much for your kind wishes ❤
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Beautiful post! So nice to see two people in love! Don’t ever let that go! ❤️
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Haha yes Meg 🙂 We will try our best 😉 When we see old couples holding hands and sharing a laugh, we always hope we should also end up like that 🙂 At this point, I am not sure what life has in store for us in the coming years, but there is nothing love cannot conquer I assume 🙂
Thank you so much for the wishes ❤
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Happy anniversary! And I wish I could deserve a Clean Desk Fairy!!!
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Haha 😀 Me too 😉 The photo is so cute right 😀
Thank you for the wishes dear 🙂
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Happy anniversary and happy birthday, Minaxi! What a lovely post! Sounds like you two complement each other well and this is a very sweet tribute. We’re celebrating our 15th this year! (Where did the time go???????) 🙂
Looking forward to your hot air balloon pics!
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Thank you so much ❤ 🙂
15 years? WOW!! Well, after celebrating 15years if you are saying where did the time go, I guess I should not crib much about it now 😀 It is so amazing to look back and reflect on all those wonderful memories, isn't it 🙂
I am looking forward to the balloon pics too! They have not yet sent us and I would surely blog about it 🙂
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Oh my gosh, you give a romantic and daydreamer of a girl like myself so much
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Oh my gosh, you give a romantic and daydreamer of a girl like myself so much hope! Thank you for giving us a glimpse of your absolutely amazing love story!
*Sorry, I pressed enter before I finished the comment LOL
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Thank you so much dear for the gorgeous words 🙂 But know that I did not hit the jackpot right away and had my share of heartbreaks as well.However now I feel probably if I had met him in the first place, I would have never understood how much difference he made to my life 🙂 So keep believing in love and it will never fail you ❤
P.S.- Don worry about the comment 😀 Happens to the best of us 😉
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Beautifully said ❤
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Congratulations, happy birthday and happy anniversary. You guys are so cute. It’s good to see relationships that are strong and well grounded. Love the sweaters by the way. I need to make something like that for me and hubby. Congrats again!
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Thank you so much Pamela 🙂 ❤ 🙂 Yes, we always feel positive and motivated when we hear happy endings don't we 🙂
The sweaters are our fav too 😀 I am sure you and your hubster will have a ball wearing them and taking pics ❤
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Awwwwwww congratulations!! You definitely have a great guy there, here’s to many many more years together! ❤
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Thank you so much dear for the sweet wishes ❤ ❤ ❤
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Happy anniversary and happy birthday to you! and heartly congo for your future for the best couple as always as in past..
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Thank you so much dear for the warm wishes 🙂
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Congrats Dear Darling, Muaaahhh
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Thank youuu ❤ ❤ 🙂
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Happy anniversary babe!!….somehow even my hubby seems to be of a similar nature…always forgiving no matter what!…..so unlike me 😉 😀 BTW why did you change back your hair color?
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Wow, that is awesome to hear 🙂 They teach us a thing or two, don they 🙂
These pics were taken last year 🙂 The sweater ones at Europe and the last pic right after our wedding 😀 I still have my pink hair, don worry 😉
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Wonderful! So lovely as my posts are totally cynical!
https://jadeddating.wordpress.com/2016/06/27/the-guys-on-tinder-to-make-you-jaded/
Congrats and keep inspiring us single ladies!
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Haha 😀 I don blame you..I was cynical for a lot of years too..Esp the times when my heart was patched up in bandages 😉 But then,this guy made all the difference and I started to believe again. 🙂 Thank you for the visit dear 🙂 I would be hopping over there soon 🙂
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Happy to hear such words from you my child. I’m proud about my son. Live happily…….
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Thank you so much amma 🙂 After all he is a chip of the old block 🙂 It is you and achan who made him to be like this ❤ 🙂
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Happy birthday and Anniversary! Hot air balloon sounds so fun!
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Heyaa Jackie 🙂 Thank you so much dear ❤ It was !!! A surreal experience to remember forever.. 🙂
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What a heart warming post! So happy to see you two so much in love and making such beautiful memories. Loved the pictures! Those sweatshirts are so cute 🙂
P.S. I could use a desk fairy too 😉
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Thank you so much hun for the gooey wishes ❤ ❤ 🙂
Haha, I was in awe too of the desk fairy 😀
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You are so special and I am so happy for you dear! xxx
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Thank you so much Lynn 😊💖
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Most welcome
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Wow!! What a love story! Wish you many many more years of happiness!😃
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Thank you so much for the lovely wishes 🙂 And welcome to this corner of the world of blogs 🙂 I hope you enjoyed your visit 🙂
Wishing you a great rest of the week and a wonderful weekend ahead 🙂
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Absolutely unbelievable. Lots to learn when it comes to Love by us from you.
Happily ever after it shall be! – Cezane
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We hope so too 🙂 Love is a constant learning process I believe for all of us 🙂 You both are a wonderful couple too who work together to make all your dreams come true and in between who also takes care to keep each other happy 🙂 Stay blessed Cezane and Michelle ❤
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Happy Birthday and Anniversary! It sounds like you had a wonderful time. It’s so great to find your “person”. Love the photos! 🙂
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Thank you so much Amy for the warm wishes 🙂 Yes, we had a ball and it is truly awesome to be with the one “person” you hoped to find 🙂
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Happy birthday and happy anniversary, sweet lady! Love reading all about the way he inspires you! You two are so adorable. Love how you love each other! 🙂
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Thank you so much Rach 🙂 ❤ And that is how exactly I feel when I read about you and Christopher too 🙂 ❤
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This is so sweet! 🙂 Happy Birthday and Happy Anny to you. I love seeing pictures of the two of you. Your both very lucky to have each other. ❤
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Aww, and the fact that this wish comes from a lady who has a happily-ever-after with a “sexy bearded man” as she calls him makes it extra special 😉 Thank you so much Nikki for the wishes 🙂 ❤
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Happy belated birthday to you Minaxi and happy anniversary to you both, you beautiful lovebirds. You sound like you’re truly made for each other. This was such a gorgeous heartwarming post and I loved all your photos, especially the last one. Wishing you both happiness, laughter and love always. xo ♥ ♥
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Thank you so much for the heartfelt and warm wishes Miriam 🙂 After all we have wonderful couples like you to be inspired from and to know true love knows no age and time 🙂
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Thanks Minaxi, I think we all inspire each other actually. Hugs to you xo
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Hugs to you too Miriam ❤ xoxo Have a superb weekend 🙂
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Happy birthday and happy anniversary!!
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Aww Chape thanks for the visit and more thanks for the warm wishes 😊
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My pleasure, beautiful couple 🙂
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Happy 7th Anniversary and Happy Birthday!! How marvelous to celebrate both together. I love the passion you exude for your Hubby and I love all that he has taught you. I bet you have taught him things as well. My fairy-tale loving friend you really have found your Prince Charming, it doesn’t get any better than that!! You have the happy ending or is it a happy beginning?! Now go out and enjoy the journey of life together, always learning from each other. May God continue to bless your union and your love for each other!! Wow Niagara Falls must have been impressive and then to top it off with a Hot Air Balloon ride…that must have been spectacular! So truly happy for you Minaxi!! xo
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Aww Debbie 🙂 Your words just make me melt like the cheese melting for Lombardi’s pizza 😉 Yes the Falls and the ride were so amazing.Thank you so much for the wishes dear. And surely we need all the blessings 🙂 ❤
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You’re very welcome! Oh pizza…my all-time favorite food!! Love your metaphor!! Yes we all need the blessings!! Wishing you continued enjoyment!! 🙂 xo
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Thank you so much Deb. All that talk about the pizza has got me so hungry. 😋😋
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LOL!! Mangia! 🙂
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Oooh have you been there ?
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Is there a place called Mangia? I was just throwing out an Italian word because we were talking about pizza… 😉
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Haha there is a restaurant called Mangia in NY. I was wondering if you had been there 😁 I did not know Mangia meant pizza in Italian 😮
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Actually it means EAT…heehee…so enjoy and Mangia your pizza!! 🙂 xo
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Thank you dear. Have a good night and sweet dreams 😊💖
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Thank you! Wishing you Sweet Dreams too!! 🙂
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Awesome! Happy birthday and congratulations. You two look great together and there’s nothing like being with your love and doing beautiful things together.
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Thank you so much Jacqueline 🙂 Words of experience 🙂 Thank you so much ❤
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My pleasure
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Wow! Wow! Wow! You both look beautiful together! May your love for each other continue to soar higher and higher each day. Great posts with amazing photos. 🙂 I’ve enjoyed the read.
And here’s wishing you a Happy Anniversary and a Happy belated birthday. You deserve the best presents from the good Lord and may He bless your home even more abundantly.
May I use this opportunity to thank you for your visits to my blog even when I don’t get to you for a while. Thank you for your kind support. I appreciate you, Dear Minaxi. Blessings to you and your cute hubby. Xoxo 🙂 🙂
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Stella, thank you so much for the beautiful wishes. It was such a sweet and heartfelt wish. And please do not thank me for visiting your blog..It is wonderful there and I love reading your posts 🙂 I hope the reader issue resolves Thanks again dear 🙂
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Hello Minaxi 🙂 I know I’m late, but I wish you all the best for your birthday and anniversary. I am so inspired by your love ❤ You're so cute and innocent.
Love you guys ❤
xoxo
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Aww, I always say that even if we are late its the wish that counts 🙂 So thanks a LOT Monica for the wonderful wishes 🙂 And it makes me so happy that our story inspires you ❤ ❤ Thank you for the kind words dear ❤ 🙂
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Always, Minaxi ❤ 😀
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Awwwwwww, big smiles! Happy (belated) anniversary the both of you. It’s lovely to see so much love!
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That is such a sweet thing to say 😊 Thanks dear 💖
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Absolutely no worries! 💖💖
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Sounds wonderful. Your love is truly the best thing anyone can have. Nothing beats two people when they become one.
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Heya Xara 🙂 Loved the last sentence 🙂 So true. Nothing can beat that. Thank you so much for the follow and your lovely words. Looking forward to visit your blog 🙂
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Right on, but it isn’t as cheery as yours. Sure there are moments when I am happy, but other times, I’m not.
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Oh we have our not so happy moments too dear. It’s just that there is already too much negativity in the world that we refuse to dwell on them and give more focus to the positives we have in our relationship 😊 And sometimes we need the dark moments to really appreciate our happy ones right ?
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True true.
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